{"id":92,"date":"2002-06-03T03:09:52","date_gmt":"2002-06-02T22:09:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/addlepated.net\/blog\/archives\/92"},"modified":"2002-06-03T03:09:52","modified_gmt":"2002-06-02T22:09:52","slug":"good-grief-if-its","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/addlepated.net\/blog\/archives\/92","title":{"rendered":"Good grief. If it&#8217;s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Good grief.  If it&#8217;s not one thing, it&#8217;s another.  <a href=\"http:\/\/bigwhiteguy.com\/mess.shtml\">This is a sordid mess<\/a> of a poor guy who was completely duped by someone who claimed to be dying of cancer.  In the last 10 years that I&#8217;ve been around the internet, I&#8217;ve seen:<\/p>\n<p>? a man who created a fictitious wife for himself<br \/>\n? a few guys pretending to be girls and having &#8216;mudsex&#8217; with hapless guys<br \/>\n? a guy who pretended to be a girl who eventually faked suicide<br \/>\n? a pregnancy newsgroup troll who pretended to die from childbirth complications<br \/>\n? a pregnancy newsgroup troll who pretended her child died from complications<br \/>\n? a woman pretending to be a man who had a cyber-romance with an unknowing woman<\/p>\n<p>My oh my, the list goes on.  <\/p>\n<p>And there always has to be drama, conflict, a soap opera.  I&#8217;ve seen 2 bigass uproars on 2 different webrings lately and I find myself tuning in for today&#8217;s helping of pain.  Sorry to be so crass, because I know I&#8217;m feeding on someone else&#8217;s anguish, but it&#8217;s like slowing down to watch a car wreck.  I worry about being so dehumanized that I don&#8217;t care enough about my fellow man, I worry about the internet turning us all into automatons, but then I remember the case in NYC in the sixties where a woman was screaming for help as she was being killed and none of her neighbors did anything because they &#8220;didn&#8217;t want to get involved&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Sorry to be such a downer tonight.  It&#8217;s not like I&#8217;m in a bad mood or anything.  Just ponderous.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Good grief. If it&#8217;s not one thing, it&#8217;s another. This is a sordid mess of a poor guy who was completely duped by someone who claimed to be dying of cancer. In the last 10 years that I&#8217;ve been around the internet, I&#8217;ve seen: ? a man who created a fictitious wife for himself ? [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5,12],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/addlepated.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/addlepated.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/addlepated.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/addlepated.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/addlepated.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=92"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/addlepated.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/addlepated.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=92"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/addlepated.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=92"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/addlepated.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=92"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}